Let’s be real—half the fun of a boudoir shoot is the prep. Picking outfits, choosing lipstick shades, pretending you’re a Victoria’s Secret angel in the mirror when really you just tripped over your dog. Been there. Boudoir isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being you, with a sprinkle of sass, a little softness, and maybe a garter belt you’ll swear feels like medieval armor until the camera starts clicking.
Outfits first. Everyone thinks boudoir = lacy lingerie only, but nope. I’ve seen people look stunning in oversized band tees, leather jackets, and even—get this—their partner’s button-down shirt. There’s something about that mix of casual and sultry that just… works. Don’t forget bodysuits. A good bodysuit is like Photoshop in fabric form. It hugs, smooths, and suddenly you’re like, “Oh hello, curves I didn’t know I had.”
Now, makeup. This is where people either go all-out or panic because they’re not into glam. My advice: go for a slightly bolder version of your everyday look. If you’re a mascara-and-lip-balm person, maybe add winged liner and a berry lipstick. If you’re already into glam, then by all means, bring on the smoky eye. But avoid super heavy foundation unless you like the feeling of frosting on your face—it looks fine on camera, but you won’t want to touch your cheek against anything. Trust me, I once leaned against a velvet chair mid-shoot and left a foundation ghost print. Creepy and awkward. Check out this article for a list of good makeup items that will last in the Florida heat.
One thing people don’t talk about enough: nails. You’ll notice them in photos more than you think. You don’t need a full salon trip (though treat yourself if you want), but at least file them, slap on some polish or clear coat, and avoid the “chipped since last Halloween” vibe.
And for accessories—less is more. A simple necklace, heels that make you feel powerful, maybe stockings if you’re feeling flirty. But don’t cover yourself in so many props that you feel like a Christmas tree.
Here’s the real secret though: the best outfit is whatever makes you giggle at yourself in the mirror before the shoot. That little spark of playfulness always sneaks into the photos. And if all else fails, throw on your favorite lingerie, add red lipstick, and remind yourself you’re basically starring in your own rom-com montage.
So yeah—pick the outfits that make you feel like you, not like you’re auditioning for someone else’s fantasy. Boudoir is less about perfection and more about catching that smirk you make right before laughing. And honestly, that’s way sexier than any lace corset.
Thanks to Eileen from the Fort Lauderdale mom blog for all of these tips.